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InnerGold Webinar April 25th

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Here is the Q&A replay of the webinar we had last Wednesday. We had questions that were from a spiritual perspective as well as questions about, “Should I tell my Children about my porn addiction?

Please share your thoughts.

Overcome Porn Addiction by Taking Action

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Many have the desire to change but they find it difficult to see the progress.  Why?  It is because they fail to take the necessary action.  In order to create a new program for your brain to follow there must be action.  You can have the greatest future picture statement in the world and it won’t do you a bit of good if you allow yourself to fall prey to the grand fallacy that sabotages many addicts’ dreams.
THE GRAND FALLACY:
Six frogs sat on a lily pad.  One decided to jump off.  How many were left?
If you answered “five,” congratulations!  Your capacity for analytical reasoning is in good shape.  Unfortunately, that is not the correct answer.  The correct answer is “six.”
That’s right:  All six frogs are still sitting on that lily pad.  Why?  Because one only decided to jump off – he didn’t actually do any jumping.  – John Assaraf
“Seize the very first possible opportunity to act on every resolution you make, and on every emotional prompting you may experience in the direction of the habits you aspire to gain.  It is not in the moment of their forming but in the moment of their producing motor effects, that resolves and aspirations communicate the new “set” to the brain.” 
- William James

Don’t Be Fooled Porn is Not Private IT Affects Others

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Changing the World One Person at a Time

“The whole course of human history may depend on a change of heart in one solitary and even humble individual – for it is in the solitary mind and soul of the individual that the battle between good and evil is waged and ultimately won or lost.” – M. Scott Peck

Don’t be fooled into thinking that your private choices are really private.  Whether you realize it or not your choices affect many other people.

I’ve been working with a wonderful mother who has been struggling with sexual addiction issues since she was a little girl.  She used to think that her private actions didn’t affect others because they were secret and no one really knew about them.  Now that she has been sober for a number of months she is struck with the realization that she was never really there emotionally for her family.

She has come to realize how many opportunities she has missed when she could have made a profound difference for good.   If she learns from her experiences, she can turn this around and be a profound influence in many lives by learning to be present when with others.  She has learned the truth that you cannot truly listen to anyone when you’re all wrapped up in yourself and that is what addictions do to one.

Lean into the pain if you need to, and be responsible for you actions today.