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InnerGold System Vs. Programs

January 30th, 2012 No comments
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Systems versus Programs

The reason the InnerGold System is so powerful is that it is a system and not necessarily a program.  A program connotes that there is a finish point to it.  With a system, the understanding is that this is a way of life or a lifelong process.  When dealing with mental health issues this is the only responsible way to approach things.  Life is always changing and so are our moods.  To be given tools to manage this reality is what the InnerGold System and Brand is all about.  How is there ever a finish to mental health issues?
 
In a recent Newsweek Magazine (May 24 & 31, 2010) article there was a story entitled, “Desperately Seeking Cures.”  In the article it states, “From 1996 to 1999, The U.S. Food and Drug Administration approved 157 new drugs.  In the comparable period a decade later- that is, from 2006 to 2009 – the agency approved 74.  Not among them were any cures, or even meaningfully effective treatments.” 
 
I realize that we all want to find cures for life’s ills and challenges (particularly addiction issues) but that is not what life is about.  Life is about being faced with temptation and trials and then finding or being taught how to find the capacity to make wise choices in spite of them. 
 
“Problems do not go away. They must be worked through or else they remain, forever a barrier to the growth and development of the spirit…The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers.” – M. Scott Peck
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YouTube Video Comments

January 17th, 2012 No comments

Here are a few comments we received on our YouTube video’s:

“ I have gone without masturbation for more than a year- it takes will power and faith- and changing the neurons in the brain- tough but possible, relapses can be terribly demoralising though.” - computermaster

“AWESOME VIDEOS GORDON!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU ARE GIVEN PEOPLE HOPE THAT YES WE ARE ABLE TO GET MANAGE THIS ADDICTION!!!!!!!!!!! ” - 123williamfr

“i enjoy these videos. when i get urges, it’s comforting to know that i can accept them but try to put energy somewhere else like watching these videos or other videos on exercise or something to learn instead of porn” - LucentTwinkle

“i read in a book which said slix nigra is medcine which can help you stop masturbation it even said its easily available but i vent bought it yet but i really need it but i cant buy it cos its really embarrassing” - MrPirateking619

“Thanks a lot for your videos!” - MrNYCATL

“thank you doctor! - Mushhoodkingston

“thank you doctor for your help. May GOD bless YOU!” - ranjith2002

“Thank you thank you thank you Doctor!” - xChrizo

“Very true; one time too many, a thousand never enough; God please help me” - dandyd032000

“Thanks a lot guys, I just wanted to share part of my testimony. I’ve been praying and I picked up a hobbie, I’m playing guitar and singing. So far I’ve been clean for a whole week without getting the urge to masturbate, this used to be impossible for me, I couldn’t go three days without doing it. I don’t care what my sex ed teacher said, masturbation made my life very unhappy and miserable, I am now more optimistic and happier.” - zombiecrowtv

“Pakistan is the numeber one country to search for porn on internet,,,,according to google and fox news,,,ultimately u can say that pakistan is the country where masturbation is highest in numbers,,so plz translate ur lecture in their language,called Urdu” –  444glow

Our videos are helping people. If you need some extra help with your addiction, you can go to our youtube site to watch our videos Porn Addiction Recovery. We are so grateful for these individuals letting us know. There is hope in overcoming porn addiction.

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Relapse Prevention for Porn Addicts

January 16th, 2012 No comments
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Have Confidence in Yourself

“A sudden bold and unexpected question doth many times surprise a man and lay him open.”  -Francis Bacon
 
It is amazing how powerful a proper question can be.  If you find yourself in a situation where you are tempted, you can change the course of your life by asking and answering for yourself the following 10 questions. By asking yourself these questions you engage the part of the brain that is rational and logical. It is this part that has the ability to put the brakes on before acting on triggers. If you feel yourself heading down the path to addictive behaviors, stop and ask yourself these. When you are tempted you probably will not want to ask yourself these question but the commitment to do so can change the course of your life. Think about it.

The Ten Commandment Questions of Relapse Prevention

1) Will acting on this temptation bring me long-term satisfaction or instant gratification?

2) What will be the end result if I act on this temptation?

3) If I choose to act on this temptation will it make my life better or worse?

4) Do I take 100% responsibility for my own actions or do I blame others and make excuses?

5) Can anything force me to act out on this trigger against my will?

6) Is there a part of me that wants to walk away from this?

7) Can I choose to follow that part that wants to walk away?

8) Is there a feeling of peace that will come to me if I walk away?

9) Would I feel better about myself tomorrow if I didn’t act out today?
10) Can the addicted part of my brain force me to act out against my will?
These questions have helped thousands of people, when they feel triggered. We know they can help you.
Have a great day.
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