Archive

Archive for the ‘Spouse Help’ Category

Spouse Webinar Feb. 22nd Replay

Play

Here is the replay of the webinar from last night, audio only. We apologize but Tony’s voice was not heard in the Q&A portion but we included all the audible audio. We mentioned some companies for tracking and accountability software. Here are the links to the companies that we talked about on the webinar: (highly recommend Saavi, because it helps to build Trust)

  1. Saavi Accountability – Internet Accountability Software (does not work on Macs)
    This software allows you to set up on multiple computers and then each week you will be mailed reports on the activity of each computer. This flags some possible pornographic sites. You can also have them email you or send a text so that you can help the individual before they slip. You can also see the videos that were viewed. If you’re struggling with porn, we recommend this software.
  2. Net Nanny is still a leader in blocking pornography
  3. K9 Web Protection is really good
  4. LittlEye is a new one but seems really good.
Reminder our spouse treatment system will be out in March. We will keep you posted.

Thanks for joining us. Our next webinar will be in March and we will keep you posted. :)

 

Is it Good Watching Pornography Together as a Couple?

Play

My spouse says, “I want you to sit down and watch with me, it will enhance our relationship.”

… Should I?

Listen to what Gordon has experienced through many years of counseling.

Does My Spouse Love Me If They Are Looking at Porn?

Play

My husband is looking at pornography. How can he possibly or does he still love me?

… in most instances, yes he does.

A difference between men and women is men generally are not emotionally involved with pornography.

It is just the visual of the body.

Talk with your spouse to see what you can do to help.

Should I engage at looking at pornography with him?

… NO! The end result is frustration, irritation and does not form the bond with one another.