This Day is Gone Forever
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“Life is a voyage that’s homeward bound.” -Herman Melville
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“Life is a voyage that’s homeward bound.” -Herman Melville
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Invictus
This week I would like to invite you to memorize the poem Invictus. I have a 17 year old young man I have been working with who is struggling with addiction issues and a plague of doubt. He has memorized this poem and it has changed his outlook on life. It has given him hope in his ability to deal with his challenges. He meditates on this poem daily for 10 minutes. Use this poem as outlined in chapter 5 in the Innergold manual. For this young man it has transformed his life.
Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the Pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.
In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.
Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds, and shall find me, unafraid.
It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the master of my fate;
I am the captain of my soul.
by William Ernest Henley; 1849-1903
“The greatest test of courage on earth is to bear defeat without losing heart.”
-Robert G. Ingersoll

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In recovery you must have confidence in yourself.
“A sudden bold and unexpected question doth many times surprise a man and lay him open.” -Francis Bacon
It is amazing how powerful a proper question can be. If you find yourself in a situation where you are tempted, you can change the course of your life by asking and answering for yourself the following 10 questions. By asking yourself these questions you engage the part of the brain that is rational and logical. It is this part that has the ability to put the brakes on before acting on triggers. If you feel yourself heading down the path to addictive behaviors, stop and ask yourself these. When you are tempted you probably will not want to ask yourself these question but the commitment to do so can change the course of your life. Think about it.
The Ten Commandment Questions of Relapse Prevention
1) Will acting on this temptation bring me long-term satisfaction or instant gratification?
2) What will be the end result if I act on this temptation?
3) If I choose to act on this temptation will it make my life better or worse?
4) Do I take 100% responsibility for my own actions or do I blame others and make excuses?
5) Can anything force me to act out on this trigger against my will?
6) Is there a part of me that wants to walk away from this?
7) Can I choose to follow that part that wants to walk away?
Is there a feeling of peace that will come to me if I walk away?
9) Would I feel better about myself tomorrow if I didn’t act out today?
10) Can the addicted part of my brain force me to act out against my will?
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