http://helpforpornaddicts.com Changing the World One Person at a Time - InnerGold's Blog Tue, 01 May 2012 00:36:37 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 InnerGold is focused on Change the World One Person at a Time by helping individuals learn to manage their sexual addiction issues. Overcome addiction by incorporating the fundamentals of the InnerGold Treatment System. http://innergold.com clean http://innergold.com tony@innergold.com tony@innergold.com (http://innergold.com) © InnerGold Counseling Services http://innergold.com InnerGold Specializes in Treating Pornography & Sexual Addiction pornography addiction, sex addiction, sex rehab, addict help, masturbation, counseling, help for porn addicts, help for sex addicts, http://helpforpornaddicts.com/wp-content/uploads/powerpress/pornstinks-img.jpg http://helpforpornaddicts.com http://helpforpornaddicts.com/stages-of-change-overcoming-pornography-addiction http://helpforpornaddicts.com/stages-of-change-overcoming-pornography-addiction#comments Thu, 25 Aug 2011 20:41:05 +0000 http://www.innergold.com http://helpforpornaddicts.com/?p=1003 http://helpforpornaddicts.com/stages-of-change-overcoming-pornography-addiction/feed 2 pornography addiction,stages of change One of the most frustrating things for addicts to deal with is the idea that change is a process rather than an event. One of the most frustrating things for addicts to deal with is the idea that change is a process rather than an event. http://innergold.com clean 1:07 http://helpforpornaddicts.com/pornography-is-like-worms http://helpforpornaddicts.com/pornography-is-like-worms#comments Mon, 11 Jul 2011 15:22:38 +0000 http://www.innergold.com http://helpforpornaddicts.com/?p=916 http://helpforpornaddicts.com/pornography-is-like-worms/feed 0 pornography addiction Pornography is like the worms in the box. Every time you partake a beautiful part of yourself is given up in return. Pornography is like the worms in the box. Every time you partake a beautiful part of yourself is given up in return. http://innergold.com clean 1:47 http://helpforpornaddicts.com/you-are-not-the-only-one http://helpforpornaddicts.com/you-are-not-the-only-one#comments Mon, 06 Jun 2011 15:29:45 +0000 http://www.innergold.com http://helpforpornaddicts.com/?p=928 http://helpforpornaddicts.com/you-are-not-the-only-one/feed 0 challenges,pornography addiction,struggles One of the things that I hear from clients over and over again is that they think that everyone else has their life all together. They look at other people One of the things that I hear from clients over and over again is that they think that everyone else has their life all together. They look at other people http://innergold.com clean 2:18 http://helpforpornaddicts.com/pornography-addiction-individual-responsibility http://helpforpornaddicts.com/pornography-addiction-individual-responsibility#comments Mon, 02 May 2011 15:55:08 +0000 http://www.innergold.com http://helpforpornaddicts.com/?p=941 http://helpforpornaddicts.com/pornography-addiction-individual-responsibility/feed 0 freedom,pornography addiction,Recovery Arthur B. Motley, publisher once said, "All the freedom man has achieved to date has been achieved only because individuals accepted responsibility, assumed obligations, performed on promises, and delivered to the rest of mankind whatever gifts and tal... Arthur B. Motley, publisher once said, "All the freedom man has achieved to date has been achieved only because individuals accepted responsibility, assumed obligations, performed on promises, and delivered to the rest of mankind whatever gifts and talent with which they were endowed. For those of future generations who would be free and help others achieve freedom, there is no other course except to live our daily lives as individuals responsible for our own morals, our own character, our own family, our own industry, our own jobs." Cling to solid and time tested principles when confronted with the challenges the world offers.  By doing so you can find internal freedom, which is worth more than all the gold in the world. Having a clear conscience is worth any price!       http://innergold.com clean 1:37 http://helpforpornaddicts.com/pornography-destroys-lives http://helpforpornaddicts.com/pornography-destroys-lives#comments Tue, 14 Dec 2010 16:49:06 +0000 http://www.innergold.com http://helpforpornaddicts.com/?p=819 http://helpforpornaddicts.com/pornography-destroys-lives/feed 0 pornography addiction,sexual addiction,tools for sobriety Pornography has destroyed many lives but even if you have gone down a path you wished you would not have taken. There is help, get it! Pornography has destroyed many lives but even if you have gone down a path you wished you would not have taken. There is help, get it! http://innergold.com clean 4:16 http://helpforpornaddicts.com/pornography-addiction-waste-of-time http://helpforpornaddicts.com/pornography-addiction-waste-of-time#comments Mon, 06 Sep 2010 15:15:13 +0000 http://www.innergold.com http://helpforpornaddicts.com/?p=629 http://helpforpornaddicts.com/pornography-addiction-waste-of-time/feed 0 pornography addiction,waste of time Make the most of the time that you have. Pornography destroys the sense of who we are and what we can accomplish. Make the most of the time that you have. Pornography destroys the sense of who we are and what we can accomplish. http://innergold.com clean 2:08 http://helpforpornaddicts.com/find-joy-in-the-journey http://helpforpornaddicts.com/find-joy-in-the-journey#comments Mon, 12 Jul 2010 15:52:13 +0000 admin2 http://helpforpornaddicts.com/?p=427 http://helpforpornaddicts.com/find-joy-in-the-journey/feed 0 joy in the struggle,pornography addiction,secret of life Joy lies in the fight and in the struggle but not in the victory itself. Find joy in learning to manage pornography addiction! Joy lies in the fight and in the struggle but not in the victory itself. Find joy in learning to manage pornography addiction! http://innergold.com clean 1:57 http://helpforpornaddicts.com/letter-from-airline-pilot-pornography-affects-everyone http://helpforpornaddicts.com/letter-from-airline-pilot-pornography-affects-everyone#comments Mon, 12 Jul 2010 15:36:03 +0000 http://www.innergold.com http://helpforpornaddicts.com/?p=466 http://helpforpornaddicts.com/letter-from-airline-pilot-pornography-affects-everyone/feed 0 Porn Addiciton,pornography addiction,pornography plague,staying sober Dear Mr. Bruin, - I have been wanting to write this email for some time, but never envisioned what exactly would "push me over the edge" to do this. - I have been utterly amazed at the words you speak, the knowledge you have, Dear Mr. Bruin, I have been wanting to write this email for some time, but never envisioned what exactly would "push me over the edge" to do this. I have been utterly amazed at the words you speak, the knowledge you have, and the effort you make to try and help other people - you really do want to change the world one person at a time! I started the Inner Gold (IG) treatment right about the end of March, and a few weeks later I subscribed to the podcasts, which have caused me great behavioral changes i.e. after every podcast that I listen to, I have this urge to really change because the podcasts seem to address things I can relate to in an inexplicable manner. I hope this makes sense. I guess it would help if I tell you a little bit about myself before the above statement would make sense. I am successful airline pilot for one of the biggest airlines in the world. I joined this company at the age of --, and before that I did the most incredible flying up in Africa, Saudi Arabia, Pakistan, and even Afghanistan! I started flying at the age of --, and have managed to live my dream ever since. I can honestly say that where I am sitting right now (career wise) I have managed to make a dream come true. This is something I am truly thankful for, but I have been dragging this dirty little secret with me since my youth when everything started for me in the form of a school friend telling me how he saw pictures of naked women on the Internet - the rest is self-explanatory. Just like most of your clients/patients, I suffer from this horrible addiction of pornography too. I finally understand what it feels like to be truly frustrated with the process of trying and failing and staying sober. This is affecting my job, my self esteem, my focus, and I need help. My biggest problem is that I can not speak to anyone about this. Not that I do not have parents or siblings, but for the exact reason that I do, and not only that, I have a wonderful brother and the best parents in the world… I guess pride is the word that I do not want to use, but know is the subject here, and I just feel like I need to vent. I need to share this with someone. I don't think I have many friends, and the few ones I do are not exactly the ones I would like to share this with since they are not only friends, but work colleagues. I listened to the most recent podcast where you say that pornography is the plague of our generation. This rattled me to the bone, and I don't think any statement so far has shocked me to my core as much as what you described in this particular podcast. It is this very statement that makes me want to change like nothing else. I have wasted time, money and emotions on pornography, and want to stop. I understand that I need to follow the IG manual's advice (daily planning sheets, future picture statement, and meditation). I can not begin to tell you how fortunate I am to have come across your website, and I would like to look back one day and see that I have truly recovered from an addiction. We hope this letter helped you to relate and to realize you are not alone. As always, YOU CAN DO IT! Have a great day. http://innergold.com clean 4:24 http://helpforpornaddicts.com/interview-with-robert-continued http://helpforpornaddicts.com/interview-with-robert-continued#comments Mon, 31 May 2010 15:22:32 +0000 admin2 http://helpforpornaddicts.com/?p=403 http://helpforpornaddicts.com/interview-with-robert-continued/feed 0 http://helpforpornaddicts.com/pastor-says-stop-looking-at-porn-how http://helpforpornaddicts.com/pastor-says-stop-looking-at-porn-how#comments Sat, 29 May 2010 16:26:50 +0000 http://www.innergold.com http://helpforpornaddicts.com/?p=335 http://helpforpornaddicts.com/pastor-says-stop-looking-at-porn-how/feed 0 Ecclesiastical,pastor,pornography addiction To overcome sexual addiction issues like pornography there needs to be additional help. There are very few people that will power alone will help you manage this addictive behavior. To overcome sexual addiction issues like pornography there needs to be additional help. There are very few people that will power alone will help you manage this addictive behavior. http://innergold.com clean